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Hi, guys. It's Tony Robbins. You're listening to Habits and Hustle. Crush it.

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What are the top five best overall exercises to get overall fit and strong and lean?

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Best number one is walking. Walking is just the best exercise. A lot of people don't call it an exercise, and I just think they're idiots. It's the most researched and most easiest and underestimated form of exercise in the world. If you look at the The populations of people who are the longest living and healthiest, they walk the most. They get anywhere, usually from 7,500 to 16,000 steps a day on average, and they are the healthiest, longest living people in the entire world. So walking is... You don't need anything special for it. You don't need a gym. Walking is without question. If I could only pick one, that would be number one. From there, if we're going to get more into specifics of actual more exercises you could do in the gym, I would say- Well, wait.

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Walking is great for your overall cardio, of course. But how about in terms of walking is not going to tone you up, though?

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No, it's not.

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So there's a difference between, I think, okay, let's break it down a little bit more. For overall fat loss or more lean muscle mass. Can you just tell us what people can do for segments like that? So if you want to get stronger, you gave some great exercises to get stronger without bulking up, you said the kettlebell swings and explosive movements. How about for overall fat loss and then to get toned and lean?

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Yeah. So people get mad when I say this, but for fat loss, it's plate pushes, four Work put downs, table walk aways. These are all the best exercises. It's eating less. It's being in a calorie deficit. There's no one exercise that's going to burn fat here or there, make you lose fat. You could be working out for hours a day, But if you're eating too much, you're not going to lose fat, and you'll gain fat.

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I 100% agree. And this is why people don't want to hear that. They don't want to hear that it's about calories in, calories out. It's like such a bad word. Why are people so offended by this? I don't understand.

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It blows my fucking mind how offended people are in general. And then not to mention, there are people who they won't even say the word diet anymore. They will They'll type D, E, T. I'm like, what the fuck is wrong with you? I don't know if I could swear on this podcast. You can.

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It's fine.

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A lot of people are like, Diet's a bad word. I'm like, All right, this is getting so stupid. Not to mention, there are many There's so many diets people will go on that have nothing to do with fat loss. People will change their diet to gain weight. People will have a certain diet based on their allergies that they have. Diet doesn't necessarily mean weight loss, and weight loss isn't inherently bad. A lot of people need to lose weight. The people who say things like, No, weight loss is bad. It's like, you've never worked with someone who's 100 pounds overweight, and they're in pain. They can't move because their joints are aching because you have no idea how their confidence is shot. You have no idea how it's affecting them mentally, physically, emotionally. The idea that they're just demonizing weight loss altogether. Not to mention, let's say someone just wants to lose 15 pounds. Who the fuck are you to say, no, you're not supposed to do that? It's their choice.

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Listen, you're singing my song. I could not agree with you more. I find it's unbelievable that now it's like a bat. You You are demonized if you're saying that's a bad thing when really everybody in their head... I don't know one person, really, if they're being honest and true with themselves, are really happy when they're 100 pounds overweight. No one.

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You can't be.

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You cannot be. You cannot be, because forget about the esthetic. I'm not even talking esthetics because of all the other things, all the other health issues that come with it. Correct. And if you're somebody who comments on that or just makes note of it, you're a bad person. I don't get it.

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Yeah, it's actually really sad. And I think what's happened is a lot of people who've been unsuccessful with losing weight, instead of addressing why they've been unsuccessful, they just then turn around and say, well, I'm happy this way. And who are you to say I shouldn't be happy? It's like, listen, I want you to be happy. And if you want to stay that way, that's fine. But let's not pretend that you can be healthy and be 100 pounds overweight and promote other people to do that because this is doing more harm than good.

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Absolutely. Because obesity in itself is one of the biggest pandemics I think we have in the world right now, in the US.

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A hundred %. Worldwide. It's crazy. It's crazy, yeah. All over the world, it's unbelievable. Which causes- It's one of the leading... Obesity is the starting point of so many health issues, whether it's high blood pressure, whether it's heart attacks, strokes. Let's look at COVID. The people who are most likely to die from COVID, the vast majority were overweight and out of shape. It puts you at risk just by being overweight. And it's not anything bad against them as people. It's just saying if you are overweight, you are at a significantly greater risk of dying of basically all-cause mortality of literally anything. You're at a greater risk of dying if you're overweight. Period, end of story.

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Exactly. It is period, end of story. I don't know how... It doesn't have to... I mean, you can just see all the research. People can see all the research that backs that. So let's go back to that. So walking great for overall health, right? Yes. Overall health is a number one. So if someone wants to get more lean... I'm going to say this. It's actually much easier when you're on a weight loss journey, let's say, when you have 50 pounds to lose or 30 pounds to lose. Where it gets to be very tricky, where a lot of people fall into is this 5-7 pound spot, which is like, they just have a little They feel like a little bit of love, they have a little bit to lose, and they really want to tone themselves up. And they're already working out and they're already eating healthy. What can you do for that? Give us some- You're 100% right.

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This is the hardest because in order to lose that last little bit, you're going to have to be more strict. You are inherently. It's like when you're developing a skill, whether it's maybe it's social media, for example. When you're first starting out, it's like, It's almost easier because there's so much to learn. You put something out, you learn something so fast. Or when you're going to the gym, when you're strength training, the first year is the best. It's like you get stronger every single time you go to the gym, you're learning. It's amazing. But as you go year after year after year, you get more and more advanced. The learning comes in small, teeny increments. You learn a little gem here and a little gem here. You put on a little bit of strength to this lift every couple of months. It's not ever stronger every single time. It gets harder the better you get at it. And when you have a teeny tiny bit of fat to lose, that means if it's really worth it to you, and who am I to say whether it is or isn't, but if it's worth it to you, you have to inherently be more strict.

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You have to dial in your nutrition, you have to dial in your workouts. And I think one of the most overlooked aspects of this specific individual is strength training to build muscle, is making sure they're going to strength train enough to build more muscle so they can increase their metabolism, and also having preset higher calorie days. I think this is super important. Not always eating in a higher calorie, in a calorie surplus. But one of the issues that will happen here is when you're trying to be super strict in a calorie deficit all the time, it's very difficult to be consistent with that. It's very difficult to seven days a week, nonstop, be in a calorie deficit. So I like to do what's called calorie cycling, where a couple of days a week, you will deliberately eat higher calorie, closer towards maintenance, so that it will help your metabolism, it will help increase a little bit. It will help with your leptin sensitivity, insulin sensitivity. But also what it's going to do is it's going to make it more realistic for you. You have a couple of days where you know you can eat more calories, it will make it more sustainable long term.

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When you have those last 5, 7, 10 pounds to go, you need to find ways to make it more sustainable because it's going to be more difficult. Right.

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So then give me an example. How many more calories are you saying a day? Would you say two days super strict One day, higher, back to two days thing?

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So it depends on what you want. But the one that I usually opt for at the beginning, and we'll adjust based on the individual, I just call it the alternate deficit, four low calorie days and three higher calorie days. So generally, it's the... And I don't know how many calories this person is eating or what their deficit is. But let's just say, for example, their maintenance calorie intake is 2,000 calories, just to make it easy. Their maintenance, daily calorie intake is 2,000. I might have them on 1,500 four days of the week, and at 2,000 calories, three days a week. That way, at the end of the week, it's a net calorie deficit. It's going to be slow. They're not going to be losing a pound a week. It's going to be slow and steady, but also way more sustainable. That way, for example, sometimes what we might do is we might put those three days, the higher calorie days, we'll call it Friday, Saturday, Sunday, which is where often people tend to eat more anyway. So this way, they have more leeway. They don't feel guilty if they eat over 1,500 calories. They can enjoy themselves with their family family and friends.

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They can go out, just enjoy themselves more. And then Monday through Thursday, boom, 1,500 calories. They're in a net deficit at the end of the week. And at the end of the month, they're losing probably about a pound and a half, 2 pounds a month, very sustainably.

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That's a great idea. And so about 500 calories, a Approximately is what you're saying?

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Yes, exactly. Okay.

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You stalled for a second. That's why I'm like, what? Hello? What is that? Okay, so then that's the plateau also. When someone's plateauing, when they're doing all the things right, And yet now they're stuck because they're not losing any more weight. Let's say this can be for anybody who is losing 50 pounds, 20 pounds, whatever, 5 pounds. Then you plateau. Is it the same type of thing? Basically, it's more of a manipulation of the calories you take in throughout the week. Is it muscle confusion, but like nutrition confusion, basically? So your body doesn't adapt. Is that the idea behind it?

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I wouldn't say that because the reality is Plateaus are normal. Plateaus are a normal part of the process, and this is in everything in life. It could be in a relationship with a husband and wife. Plateau could be in a learning curve. You're at school, maybe You're learning something. You get it, you get it, you get it, and all of a sudden, I'm stuck here, whatever it is. And then you just have to work and work and work until you get it. And in strength training, if you increase your bench press by 10 pounds a month, just 10 pounds a month, that's not a lot. Like 10 pounds a month, you're going to the gym four or five days a week, you would feel like you should increase more. If you increase 10 pounds a month, your bench press has 120 pounds at the end of the year. In two years, 240 pounds. Three years, 360 pounds. Most people never bench press that much in their entire life, never mind in three years. So we live in this world that demonizes and makes it seem as though plateaus, we're not supposed to have them. It's normal.

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The issue is as soon as someone hits a plateau, they quit. And for me, my job as a coach is just to make sure you don't quit. How can I get you on a program in a way that's sustainable and that you enjoy it and you don't quit? Because as long as you don't quit, you'll succeed. You just have to be consistent enough to make it happen. So plateaus are normal. It's part of the process. There's no need to try and avoid the plateau. It's just work through the fucking plateau, and eventually it'll work. Just don't stop once you hit it.

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That's such a good point. I like that. That's so true, right? In life, everything has a plateau, right? Everything. It's not just about weight loss or strength training. It's so true.

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But you said something- Nothing is linear. Nothing is linear. It's so true.

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That's a really good point. But you said something like, how do you get people not to quit? I think that's the biggest challenge, right? People are gung-ho, and then they don't see the results that they want, or it's taking too long, or whatever reason, and then they just stop. And so what do you tell people? I I hate the word motivation, but how do you get... I really do. I can't stand it. But what's your strategy with your coaching with your people that you actually see to get them to keep going and not lose sight and not quit?

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Yeah. So there's a bunch here. So part of it is in the tactics, and a lot of it is in the education. So for example, a tactic could be like what I spoke about with the calorie cycling, right? That's a tactic where if someone is having a really hard time being consistent, well, how do I get them not to quit? I give them a couple higher calorie days. It's going to be a little bit slower progress, but at least this way they can maintain it and sustain it, as opposed to just quitting as soon as they go over 1,500 calories. That's a tactic perspective. But an education perspective is or even more awareness perspective. A lot of people assume that the scale is going to be linear down. They're going to lose weight every time they step on the scale, or they have one day of perfect nutrition, and all of a sudden, they should lose the next day. That's not how it fucking works. As soon as they say, Well, why did the scale go up? Because it's normal. There are many reasons why the scale would go up. A lot of times, if they were left to their own devices, then they would just quit as soon as the scale spiked up.

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I see that all the time. It's one of the reasons why so much of my content is geared towards telling people to shut the fuck up about the scale and understand why the fluctuations happen and know that it's not a bad thing for the scale to spike up, especially for women. Women have way more scale fluctuations than men do for many, many reasons, at least to which hormonal fluctuations massively impact your water retention and scale. And a lot of people don't know, they're like, Well, how does water weight impact the scale? And it's very simple. Imagine you have a bucket of water. You're at the beach, you get to the beach, you're with your kids, whatever it is. You take the empty bucket of the water. You picked an empty bucket. There's no water in it. It's super light. It doesn't weigh anything. It's very easy. You take that to the water. You try and fill it up with your kids. Boom. Now, all of a sudden, that bucket's really fucking heavy, right? That's what happens in your body, right? And for example, let's say you eat more carbs than usual. If you had a little puddle of water on your counter and you took a slice of bread and you just wiped that bread over that little puddle of water, what would happen?

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The water wouldn't just all of a sudden fall off the counter. The bread would actually absorb that water. And now that slice of bread would weigh more. For every gram of carb that you eat, your body will hold on to about three to four grams of water. So if you're eating an extra 100 grams of carbs, which is very fucking easy to do, you will hold on to more water. And it doesn't mean you gained fat because you eat carbs. It just means your body is holding on to more water, just like that bucket of water has more water in it, so it weighs more. So it's teaching people these things about scale fluctuations. It's teaching them about plateaus. They're not necessarily bad, just so they can say when they face that issue, when they face the scale spike, when they face the plateau, when they go through this difficult time, they can logically say, not emotionally, but logically say, Oh, this is normal.

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