How do you know if somebody actually wants a commitment the way that you do? You have the conversation you're too afraid to have right now, the one that you've been putting off because it feels so good to keep enjoying this thing that you don't want to wreck it, you don't want to drive it away, you are afraid that if you have the question, you're going to be seen as difficult. And what we think is, if I could just keep getting closer and closer and closer to this person, they'll start giving as much as I am. Unfortunately, the opposite happens, is we give and we give and we give and we give, and someone learns that there's absolutely no price to pay for the giving. We come to find after months or sometimes years of being in limbo with someone, when we finally say, What is this? They're like, I don't know. You realize you've wasted all that time and energy all because you weren't prepared to have a hard conversation. Every great relationship relationship.