What advice do you have for people who have been single for a long time and are struggling to find love?

Don't try to fix your loneliness or the fact that you would really like to meet someone. That's a part of being human. The thing that turns that pain into unbearable pain is the relationship you have with your loneliness, the relationship you have with being single. And so much of that relationship is defined by this story that gets created, that I'm not enough, that I'm undesirable, that I'm always the person before the person they marry. You have to get yourself to a place where you're happy enough without someone. You don't have to be blissfully happy, but happy enough that you can always say no to the wrong thing because you will find the right person faster if you can say no to the wrong people quicker.