The very best relationship advice I can give you about choosing a partner to do life with is to choose life with yourself first. Do whatever you need to be doing in your day-to-day life right now so that you really like yourself and that you are proud of yourself as a person. You're proud of your character. You're proud of how you take care of yourself, how you talk to yourself, the way that you spend your time. Because when you get the inside right, that relationship with yourself in terms of how you feel about yourself, you're going to be attracted to people with true character, someone who is worth going the distance with. Close your eyes and ask yourself this, Is this person who I would want to be alone with every day, day in and day out, when I'm 60? Focus on how they make you feel. Your life partner is the single most important decision you will ever make. Do not rush this decision.