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As athletes, we always dream about playing in a national Championship game sold out at Gillette Stadium, 70,000 people there, overtime, ball on our stick, game on the line, chance to win it for our alma water. That's the dream. But to get there, you have to spend countless hours on your own in empty stadiums doing the tedious, monotonous work that is skill development, that is running sprints, that is doing squats and pushups, that has to be what you fall in love with such that you can experience that moment that you dream of. And the athletes that fall in love with the process, that get into the detail during practice, that understand that they actually improve the most when they practice away from practice, especially team sports. You hear, whether it's Larry Bird's story or Michael Jordan's story. So practicing away from practice when you're on your own in the quiet, the early morning hours, the late night hours, that's where the best end up rising to the top.

Welcome to Passion Struck. Hi, I'm your host, John R. Miles. And on the show, we decipher the secrets, tips, and guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turn their wisdom into practical advice for you and those around you. Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself. If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays. We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guests ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders, visionaries, and athletes. Now, let's go out there and become passion struck. Hello, everyone, and welcome back to episode 451 of Passion Struck. Consistently ranked as the number one alternative health podcast. A heartfelt thank you to each and every one of you who return to the show every week, eager to listen, learn, and discover new ways to live better, to be better, and to, most importantly, make a meaningful impact in the world. If you're new to the show, thank you so much for being here, or you simply want to introduce us to friends or family members, and we so appreciate when you do that.

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Today, I am absolutely thrilled to be joined by a true titan of lacrosse and a visionary entrepreneur, Paul Rable.

Paul Rable's 14-year career as a professional lacrosse player in the United States is marked by extraordinary achievements and groundbreaking milestones zones. In 2019, while still an active player, Paul co-founded the Premier Lacrosse League, where he continued to compete for the final three seasons of his illustrious career before retiring in 2021. His accolades include winning two World Lacrosse Championship gold medals and earning the title of a 10-time All-Star in Major League Lacrosse, where he also secured two league championships, often referred to as the Michael Jordan or Wayne Gretsky of Lacrosse. Paul's rise from a determined young athlete to becoming the sport's first million-dollar man and the founder of the PLL has cemented his legacy as a legendary figure in the world of sports. But Paul's path wasn't just about athletic prowess. It was about creating a manual for greatness. A manual he meticulously compiled through conversations with icons like Bill Belichick, Steph Curry, and Sue Bird. In his new book, The Way of the Champion: Pain, Persistence, and the Path forward, he delves into this journey, offering a blueprint that transcends sports and applies to the boardroom and beyond. Today, in our interview, Paul will share share the profound lessons from his incredible journey, from tackling personal challenges like auditory processing disorder to overcoming professional hurdles such as losing a world Championship and enduring a public divorce.

He'll reveal how embracing vulnerability, building relationships with world-class talents, and maintaining a rigorous mindset shaped him into the champion he is today. We'll explore how the principles of the way of the champion can empower you to Excel in adversity, set ambitious goals, and discover your strengths. Whether you're an an athlete, an entrepreneur, or anyone with a dream, Paul's insights will help you navigate your path to success. So get ready to be inspired, to learn, and perhaps to start writing your own manual for greatness. Thank you for choosing Passion Struck and choosing me to be your host and guide on your journey to creating an intentional life. Now, let that journey begin.

I am absolutely thrilled and honored to have Paul Rable join us on Passion Struck. Welcome, Paul.

Hey, thanks for having me, John. Excited to be here.

When I do these interviews, I'd like to start off by giving the audience some context of who I'm interviewing. And for you, I wanted to do that by exploring your childhood a little bit. It turns out that you and I have a few things in common. Like you, I also faced an auditory processing disorder growing up, so I know firsthand what it's like to experience that.

How did having to overcome that learning difference and also ADHD shape your approach to overcoming adversity?

Well, it's nice to hear we have that in common. I view our learning differences, our challenges in life as one that can ultimately render itself as a gift. So for me, growing up and struggling in the classroom because I just learn differently, required me to study more, study harder, develop mnemonic devices as techniques to retain information, learn how to storytell, make sense of things through alternative narratives. That extra workload made its way onto the field as I developed into a high school, college, and then professional athlete. I just noticed that I worked harder than everyone else. I think it was ingrained in me because that was how I assimilated to the traditional education system. If we're lucky enough in life to progress and develop a sense of perspective, we realized that our greatest challenges were ultimately the biggest avenues of growth.

It's very interesting because my daughter inherited the auditory processing dysfunction as well. And just seeing how hard she's had to work to achieve what she's achieved, but also how much fulfillment it's brought her is really interesting from the eyes of a parent.

When I think about learning and processing, you hear it on the athletic field all the time where a coach will get mad at his player and he'll say, You're not listening. And you sit back and you go, I am listening. And it becomes an emotional thing. That's how relationships end up in rowels. I've learned through the educational process for me that first consuming the information, whether it's through reading or listening, viewing, the second is then writing it down. So I've been keeping journals for 25 years. I fill them up every quarter, and I would always take notes in class. The third is actually the one most left off, and that's teaching the material or at least attempting to verbalize it to someone else. I learned that in an R&D class I took when I was younger, and I feel it now, especially as a coach to a lot of the younger next-generation lacros players, is it's difficult when you first give it a go. That's why we should always practice ahead of our oral presentations. But the process of Sharing the information that you just learned and wrote down completes a full loop for me, stored into long term memory.

I found I have to do the same exact thing. People would always ask me, You just write constantly during these meetings. For me, it was the way that my mind worked. I had to write it down if I wanted to retain it. And then even if I was in a meeting, I tried to ask questions back to the people who were in the meeting, basically reiterating what they were saying. So what you were taught It seems it was the same thing that I was taught.

A hundred %.

I want to jump into defining greatness because you wanted to be great from a young age. How do you define greatness for yourself? And how has that definition evolved over time?

It's a great question. I think it first starts with the eye of the beholder. And the lessons that I have learned from my peers and going through process on my own of trying to be the best lacros player in the world and win championships and MVPs is that you first have to dream big. You have to set the biggest goals for yourself. That's the way to first test what your human potential is. Going back to the full circle of how we discussed storing a new information in a long-term memory, I also believe that having the vulnerability to step into the spotlight and profess that you want to be the greatest is also part of the manifestation trend. Then after all that big dreaming is done, we have to act small. That means every single day, having the discipline, having the focus, having the level of commitment, a lot of it's critical thought, that will lay the groundwork to your improvement over a long period of time. There is no such thing as an overnight success. Companies that reach success starting from the startup phase often takes them 10 years. Athletes, it will take them 20.

So you have to commit to the small steps for the long haul.

I love that. And similar to you writing your first book, which we're going to be talking more about today, I just released my first book in February, and one of my chapters was called The Bee and turtle Effect. And what I'm trying to explain to people is that you have to be like the turtle who thinks about things from the long term perspective and is willing to be slow and methodical about the journey, but you also need to be like the bee in active in the everyday moments where you're trying to do tasks that get you closer to your long term ambitions and aspirations. So very much aligns to what I talk about. So for the audience who might not be familiar with you, you are often referred to as the Michael Jordan or Tom braided or Wayne Gretsky of La Crosse, which really speaks volumes about your impact on sport. However, a lot of listeners might not be from the East Coast and might not really understand the game of lacrosse. It was interesting for me to learn as I was doing my research that it actually dates back to the 17th century. Could you provide a little bit of background for listeners on what are some aspects of lacrosse that make it so distinct and exciting?

Yeah, and probably further back, so 17th century, discovered by colonists that came over from France and England. This is a Native American game. It's the first sport of North America. It goes back thousands of years. Early documentation in 11 and 1200 AD. Now, the Native Americans played it in two ways. One, which comes from the Haudenosaunee people, which represent the Six Nations, is through what they would call ceremony or their longhouse, and that is the version of the game they call medicine game. It was very much played to celebrate the creator, and it was a spiritual practice. The other version that they called to honti guahes is essentially what that also means is they bump hips, was a version of the game that was meant for recreational purposes and to solve conflict. And that version of lacrosse was sometimes over fields that stretched miles long with hundreds of players per side, no time, no boundaries. And it was sport or the game in its truest essence. So then comes over a Frenchman who ended up being French-Canadian. His name was George Beers, and he saw a native nation called the Kanaqouai playing the game. He spent time with their leaders to figure out how to essentially build the first rulebook.

And for a long time, it was the national sport of Canada because of George Beers. And he, along with the Kanaqouai, so the Montreal Lacrosse Club and the Knaqaway would tour not only North America, but they went over to the UK to play lacrosse and share the game. From there, it made its way into New York, where Manhattan College and NYU were the first universities to play in the 1800s. And then Johns Hopkins, my alma mater, played against Maryland in 1895, which is considered the rivalry in college sports, the North Carolina versus Duke basketball. And it has made its way through the youth high school college into the international level over the last two centuries. It was once an Olympic sport in 1904, 1908. And then as the Olympics began their commercial approach to the international games every four years, they had some requirements like having governing bodies out there where lacrosse fell off. Cut to when we announced the build of our league that I oversee, called the Premier Lacrosse League in 2019, one of our outside the box efforts was getting Lacrosse back into the Olympics. And we announced this past November alongside Casey Wasserman and the LA 2028 folks that La Crosse will indeed be back in the Olympics come '28 in Los Angeles.

So a crazy story. It's a really wild story that's unknown by many.

No, I think it's fantastic because my son played La Crosse. We were living in North Carolina, where it was a pretty big sport, and I loved it because it fuses hockey, which I loved playing soccer, football, into one sport with elements of each. Because it's predominantly played in Eastern states, we moved from North Carolina to Austin, Texas, where it was actually still being played. They just weren't as good at it. Then, unfortunately, we moved to where I live now in the Tampa Bay region, and they weren't playing it at all. The only way that my son could have played was by joining a traveling team. This is something I wanted to ask you about because there's a concern that I often hear about that the demands of travel sports are negatively impacting American families. For people who don't live in the regions where lacrosse is played the most, that's their only option. How do you think people who find themselves in this situation can maintain a healthy balance when a child's involvement in travel sports can sometimes become too central to the family's overall life?

Yeah, it's a great question. A couple of things. First is that James His name is Smith, who started basketball, was also Canadian, and he took those peach baskets and the idea of a ball. He played lacrosse before basketball. And lacrosse truly is, I think, an amalgamation of the big four sports that we see today. So you have the endurance of soccer, the contact of football, the agility and hand-eye coordination of basketball and baseball. It really is the best of all, is the way that I feel. And really, I think a reason why if a lacrosse player in your neighborhood, they are so passionate about it, it really fulfills the wider range of skill sets and even artisanship. The reason why it was for a long time, mostly played in the Northeast is that's where it was created, as we discussed with the Haudenosaunee making its way from New York down to Maryland. And then the other two areas is there just wasn't greater leadership over the last 100 years that was both lobbying publicly and investing privately in the game's growth out West. And that's what football, basketball, and baseball in America had. So there's the coaching component.

It's really important. And then the other piece is lacrosse because it's an equipment sport is more like hockey and golf than it is like basketball and soccer, meaning it requires an expensive upfront payment, if not otherwise, covered by your local rec and town program. And that inherently creates a barrier to play in anything. I study youth sports quite a bit, and for us to make an investment as parents and players, I think often is led by a love or passion for whatever it is that we want to invest in. And with equipment sports that cost money and are not funded by your local town and rec, you're essentially asking a family to invest before they know if they love. That's why I also love getting your question, the purity of rec sports and town play versus the threat of privatized club and travel leads. Now, just like in any industry there is a benefit to being able to, if you choose as a family, to go play travel lacrosse for the same reasons that there are perceived benefits if you want to play AAU basketball or club soccer. Oftentimes, it requires some fundraising. And the other time, a lot of travel, which can be expensive for households.

I think for similar reasons, as we had discussed in the first chapter of this conversation, thinking big and acting small. As a society, we struggle with holding space for two things that might actually feel like they oppose each other, but can both be true at the same time, meaning we can have a really good public sports environment, which is our rec in town, and also have private club and travel options for certain families or players that desire that. Now, what we don't want, and this is the trend we see over the last 10 years, is that because private and club sports have gotten so big that town and rec deteriorates. And the primary reason it's deteriorating is because kids who get cut from the club team are no longer playing town and rec because it's perceived as not cool. So it's incumbent on leadership to make town and rec feel cool. It's like pop Warner football. That was named off of a famous football coach, and there is a vibe and a brand that is associated with it, the Little League World Series. I think that it's incumbent on operators to continue to invest in rec sports.

Now, the recommendation that I'll to parents that are deciding whether or not to invest in private sports for their kids or sports specialize, which has also been a trend over the last 10 years, meaning fewer kids today are playing multiple sports, and they're choosing one sport to play year round at a very early age. That's not part of my generation or my parents' generation. My parents' generation guided me to playing four sports a year until my sophomore year in high school when we looked at data and my emotional commitment to lacrosse to say, Okay, I'm going to stop playing basketball, soccer, track, and field. So here's the deal. I understand the viewpoint of parents and kids who want to sport specialize because the route to getting a college scholarship is pretty linear. You're going to know by the time you're 18. If you're just doing the math and saying, Well, I'd rather play for four seasons a year when I'm 12 so that I have six years of runway to getting the most time in the calendar to develop my skill at the highest level such that can achieve a scholarship. I understand that, skill acquisition.

The other side of it, as an athlete, more widely, your muscle agility, your emotional agility, the exposure to different teammates and coaches, Different sport disciplines actually make you a more well-rounded athlete with greater potential. Threading the needle is, I think all kids should play as many sports as they want to. Should they be able to afford or get into the programs locally. And then if they really want to specialize, the parents and the kids need to balance the timing of doing such. And I believe that there's more data to support the decision than meets the eye. Parents and players are going to be biased. They often, and I was, and my parents were, think that we're better than we are. But you can look at the stat sheet. You can look at, is your kid a starter? Are they practicing when they're not being told to practice? I think that's important. Are they the best player in their team? Do they become the best player in the league, the best player in the city and state? We have to remind ourselves that it's really difficult to play college sports and extraordinarily difficult to make it into the pros.

So this has to be a mindset that's backed by performance data to suggest that, Okay, let's go all in.

Thank you for really answering that in a comprehensive way. And I've seen this play out firsthand because my nephew was a really soccer player. And for him in Chattanooga, Tennessee, they were limited by how many teams they could play. So he played club because they thought it was his only ticket to potentially playing professionally or in college. But I remember my brother, one week he's in Tennessee, the next week he's in North Carolina, the next week he's in Virginia, the next week, he's in Florida. It's hard. It is. Paul, let's talk about your new book, The Way of the Champion: Pain, Persistence, and the Path forward. Congratulations.

Thank you.

I went to the Naval Academy. I should say I graduated from the Naval Academy, and that's where I first really became familiar with lacrosse because so many of my friends played, and back then, the academy was a top 10 team. But I bet not many of the listeners know that Bill Belichick spent much of his life on the Naval Academy grounds from the age of four on. His father, for those of you who don't know it, was an assistant football coach for 33 years. In fact, In fact, a couple of my classmates were able to send me a picture that his parents are actually buried on the academy grounds. I bring this all up because Bill wrote the foreword for your book, and I wanted you to tell the story of how you met him and then how he actually recruited you to be a safety for the Patriots.

Coach is a dear friend. He's been a mentor. I've known him for about 20 years now. He grew up playing It's one of his primary loves. He keeps sticks in his office like I do back here. And whenever we get together, we try to go have a catch and a shot on that. He used to watch his father study film at the Naval Academy, and that's why he became such a great student of football, cut to winning eight Super Bowl. Coach Belichick has a level of curiosity and humility unlike anyone I've ever met that is at the top of their game. And the way that comes to life is he is always asking questions. He's asking for help. He's looking across the aisle at his peers in other industries to try to learn. In this case, my head coach at Johns Hopkins, Dave Petromala, became friendly with Coach Belichick because Coach Belichick wanted to understand how this team in Baltimore had been the number one team in the country for six straight years and gone to six straight final fours and won two national championships. So he met with Coach Petro, asked if he could come to a practice.

When I heard that Coach Belichick, my junior year, was coming to one of our practices, I asked as a captain, my coach, if I could get 10 minutes of time with him. So he asked Coach Belichick. Bill said, Sure. After practice, I sat in an office with him and probably pelted him with 20 questions of my own. So the two of us built a bond and then a friendship over those next two years, I think, around our shared curiosity. That ties into a lot of the lessons that I share in the book. I would say if you look at the best athletes, entrepreneurs, and entertainers in the world, they're all incredibly curious, and that's why they develop at a rate that they do. That's why they have so much resilience. That's why they are able to respond from loss so well is they comprehend, they understand, and they ask questions. So I finished my career at Johns Hopkins He began playing professional lacrosse, was on the national team my second year out of graduating. Coach Belichick and I would try to get in the habit of going to dinner a couple of times a year, and he would invite me out to watch the Patriots play.

And at one of our dinners, he had asked if I had ever thought about playing in the NFL, and I told him yes. I told him that I was interested in being a receiver. He thought I'd be a better strong safety. We left the conversation saying, Hey, let's think about next summer, coming to OTAs and giving this thing a shot. So I started working my straight conditioning coach. This was before, by the way, Chris Hogan made the crossover, who was also a college lacrosse midfielder like me. He went to Penn State, and he ended up trying out in the NFL. Five years later, Bill Belichick takes Chris Hogan to be a receiver on the Patriots, and Chris ended up winning three Super Bowl. It's weird how life comes full circle. When Chris retired from the NFL, he came back and played in our league, the PLL for a season, and was my teammate for my last season playing. Going backwards, Bill and I decided together that the more daring path for me would be to stay in La Crosse and try to pursue greatness. To your first question, John. He knew that I had just come off an MVP campaign.

I was a starting midfielder for Team USA, and that I wanted to play for the next 15 years of my life. And while I could have grinded it out as a practice roster player, then broken a roster, worked my way up, having the courage to build something from scratch when many were telling us that we couldn't was where we arrived. And that began my professional career as a lacrosse player than entrepreneur.

Thank you for sharing that. I was recently watching the Netflix documentary on John Elway's draft pick, and I bring it up given the draft was last night. And it was so interesting to me that he did not want to play for a certain team, and therefore, he was leveraging Major League Baseball as much as he possibly could. But I look at these situations, whether it's him or Bo Jackson or Deion Sanders or even Tom braided could have played. I think trying to play two professional sports, even Michael Jordan, dilutes your abilities because I think that the skill set that you need in one sport can be drastically different than how you have to train your sofa another sport. But we don't have to explore more of that. That's just my personal thought.

No, I write about having singular focus if you want to achieve a championship career and strive for greatness. You have to be so singularly focused on your discipline where sacrifice becomes easy. I think when you are doing two things that are extraordinarily difficult at the same time, you will not reach your potential in either.

I think it's a great point. And people have told me since I launched the podcast, why aren't you building all these courses out? And why haven't you been doing all this consulting? And why aren't you doing more keynotes and things like that? I figured to be an expert in being a podcaster, that should be my focus. And once I got closer to that, then I would start branching out, which I'm now doing with the book and speaking. But the results speak for itself. Yesterday, I was ranked the number two health podcast in the world. Amazing. Ahead of Jay Shetty, ahead of Lewis house. And I wouldn't have gotten there, I think, if I were diluting my time, so to speak. So I completely agree with your point there.

Yeah, and I think it's a mindset, too, because, John, I'm sure you do other things, right? And there's a lot of people out there that are probably singularly focused on their career and then have a family. So it's also understanding how to manage time and your energy, and pursue hobbies that you frame our hobbies, right? Like, I love to paint. I love to play music. Those were things that I was able to compartmentalize. I might do this once a month. I am not aiming to be one of the greatest artists of the 21st century by any stretch. So it is very possible to be singularly focused, in my case, on being the greatest across player in the world and also pursue these other hobbies of interest and not hold that bar to yourself. We are our own biggest critics. And so to have a conversation with yourself around where everything falls in a range of priorities is important.

One of my favorite things that I talk about is something that Steven Covey actually brought up. He says, The main thing about the main thing is keeping the main thing. It sounds so easy, but it is so freaking hard to do. The other thing I say all the time is the greatest person you ever meet in your life is the person who stares back at you in the mirror. But the biggest critic that you'll ever meet in your life is that person who stares back at you in the mirror. And you really have to learn how to overcome becoming your own visionary arsonist to achieve the things that you want in life.

Yeah. And that's when you start implementing process, right? And going back to Bill Belichick, his famous phrase that everyone knows is do your job. He was so good at saying, Okay, we have these big ambitions. We want to win multiple Super Bowl in a row. We're bringing in new draftees. We're making big trades. People have families. There's distractions. How do I get everyone to just focus on the process? And I think that's really important. So once we have these ideas and these visions and we want to go execute, it's always getting down to, Okay, what do I need to do now? How do I do my best ability? And how am I planning for what I'm What are you going to do next?

Yeah, I'm glad you brought that up because I interviewed Sean Spring on this show a couple of years ago. Oh, I love Sean. Yeah. If people don't know who he is, Sean played for the Seahawks, then he played for the Redskins, now the National. Now, whatever they're going to call themselves. The Commanders. If that even sticks. And then the Patriots. And I asked them, What made the Patriots so much different? Could he actually feel a difference? And he said it was completely the system. He said There were no excuses. Everyone came in there to do a job, and you were expected to come and show up every single day and to treat practice just as you would treat a game. So it definitely is a mentality, and I think I love that interview with him because it showed just how different each team was.

I can share a story through Marty Bennett, who's a friend of mine, and one of the great receiving tight ends was on the Patriots team the year they made that heroic comeback against the Atlanta Falcons in the Super Bowl. And Marty got traded over the Patriots and said that exact thing that Sean Spring says, Man, the culture was crazy. You get into training camp and it is about the Super Bowl. And believe it or not, There is this misconception that if you're playing professional sports, that your level of commitment and discipline, the playbooks is so high, the playbooks are so dense, every team believes that they're going to win. That's not true. Some Some athletes out there that are in the pros have gotten there by talent, mostly. It's rare to find the Tom braided that has the entire package, that commitment, that discipline, that competitive fire. And then the Patriots is just truly an organization that is embedded He had a lot of fun in winning. So getting back to Marty, as they won the AFC Championship, he came in the locker room with celebrating, and everyone sitting in their locker room, in their lockers, looking at him like he had three heads, and he was like, What's the deal?

They were like, We're here to win a Super Bowl, not an AFC Championship. And he was floored by that. Cut to the Super Bowl and why the Patriots are so thoughtful, this even ties into Bill Belichick, is Super Bowl week prep, Bill actually builds in 30 minutes breaks to their practice to embody the elongated Super Bowl halftime show. That's super nuanced, but a lot of people don't think, oh, gosh, an athlete is going in the locker room and hanging out for 30 minutes before they go play the second half of the biggest game of their life. So he creates that simulation. You get to the game, they're down 21 to three, 24 to three, whatever it was that halftime. Marty comes in to the locker room. He said everyone was focused on their job. There wasn't like, oh, how do we get here? We're playing so poorly. We're not going to be able to come back and win. Everyone was focused on their job. And then one of the assistant coaches came over to him and said, Hey, this second half, we're going to ask you to chip block, not go out for passes. And he was leading the league in TD Receptions as a tight end.

He didn't come over there to chip block, but he goes, Right. Okay, I'll do it. And he said he chip blocked the shit out of everyone the second half. And we all know the story of the Patriots coming back and winning. So it talks about that lesson is in culture, in preparation, in in humility and then in execution.

Yeah, I'm a huge Eagles fan, and I thought we blew it two Super Bowl's ago. But I would hate it to have been an Atlanta Falcon's fan during that Super Bowl because, wow, who would ever thought that come back. Well, something I wanted to tie into here is last year on the podcast, I had Alan Stein, who you might know, and Sally Jenkins, the journalist on the show. And earlier this morning, I was talking to my friend David Ners, who's a former NBA player. And we were talking about your interview and this whole concept that they all talk about, which is the Unseen Hours, those moments of hard work behind the scenes that elevate great athletes to Elite Status, which is what you were just talking about with Bill Belichick and how he approaches this. How has you doing this work in the Unseen Hours transformed your performance? And what should a listener learn about from this concept?

Well, it's actually interesting because the cover of the book was designed to try to encapsulate exactly what you're talking about. You'll see the print, The Way of the Champion, and then it's an empty stadium, and there's a picture of me running stairs. Because Because as athletes, we always dream about playing in a national championship game sold out at Gillette Stadium, 70,000 people there, overtime, ball on our stick, game on the line, chance to win it for our alma mater. That's the dream. But to get there, you have to spend countless hours on your own in empty stadiums doing the tedious, monotonous work that is skill development, that is running sprints, that is doing squats and pushups. That has to be what you fall in love with such that you can experience that moment that you dream of. And the athletes that fall in love with the process, that get into the detail during practice, that understand that they actually improve the most when they practice away from practice, especially team sports. If you are a skill position player in lacrosse and you go to your team Practice every day, at most, you're going to take 20 shots, and that's going to most of the time live during shooting drills.

But when you're out on your own, you can get 100 shots up in 30 minutes, 200 shots. And so you hear, whether it's Larry Bird's story or Michael Jordan's story. So practicing away from practice, when you're on your own in the quiet, the early morning hours, the late night hours, that's where the best end up rising to the top.

In the book, in addition to Bill Billachek, you highlight stories from some of the greatest athletes and coaches in the world. And I wanted to talk about one of them. I could talk about a lot of them. But you write about Steph Curry, who's renowned for his long-range three-pointers. But I think what people don't understand, I'm going to share another story, and then I'll share the one that you had in the book, is that he practices almost more with his non-dominant hand than he does with his dominant hand because he didn't want there to be a difference between the two when he needed to execute a play. But he also emphasizes that he doesn't start by practicing those long three pointers. He starts by going close to the basket and even as great as he is, focusing on form and mechanics. How does this methodical approach to skill development influence your performance and mindset in games? And what could the audience learn from this example?

Yeah, I always think about it from a sports skills standpoint is you can't do the extraordinary until you master the ordinary and the ordinary is fundamentals. Steph has told me time and again, and also tell my own experience growing up, that he starts in the paint. That's the name of one of our chapters is Start in the Paint. And so when we see Steph on television, knocking down 40-foot jumpers, It always starts with him shooting from 4 feet. And in close, in tight in La Crosse is where we can actually continue to hone in on our fundamentals and master our form. So I think Steph is an embodiment of an artist who paints all over the canvas, but had to establish the canvas first. So when you're out there as a young athlete or even a professional, you have maintain that mindset. Don't show up on a lacrosse field and begin your shooting workout from two-point range. Don't show up on a basketball court and start chucking up threes. Start in tight, build repetition, muscle memory, consistency, then step out. And the personal story is, Morgan Wooten is one of the greatest coaches in basketball history, was the coach at my high school, DeMatha.

And before I ever knew who Steph Curry was, then met him down the road, and I suspect his father, Del, was either taught this from a Morgan Wooten or someone like that, is everyone at practice had to start directly under the rim, make 10 swishes in a row, then step back, another 10, then step back, another 10. However, this was with full form. So that means a gooseneck follow through. The ball goes up and down. It's not a touch shot from one foot out to the basket. So you're really working on your fundamentals, no matter how close you are. I then took that drill and added it to lacrosse. In over 20 years, my first set of reps were always at the island, which we call, which is five and five, five yards outside the post and five yards up. I got made fun of a lot because Paul, you're never going to shoot from there in a game, which was mostly true, but they didn't realize I was honing in on my fundamentals.

Such an important topic, and thank you for sharing that. Another thing that I've heard you describe yourself as is a competitive compromiser. Can you elaborate on how you balance the need for competitiveness with the necessity for kindness and empathy?

That's a great question. I will zoom out and first explain the structure of the book. The book is called The Way of the Champion. The subtitle is Pain, Persistence, and the Path Forward, which I tend to get along with. The only two things we can count on in life, and especially in sports, is pain and patience. We've talked about playing the long game. Pain, you will lose. The greats all lose. And actually counterintuitive to what people think winning comes easy to them. They've actually lost more than most. They've built resilience, and through that resilience, they succeed. So understanding that we talked about the cover of the book, and then the book is broken into three parts: amateur, professional, then beyond the game. Some of the lessons that I've pulled and shared are reoccurring, but others evolve. And in the beyond the game portion of our lives, when we retire or no longer play, it becomes about service. What I learned in my version of beyond the game and starting the PLL is that, oh, to be successful in a boardroom means working with your partners, working with others. The greatest partnerships allow the greatest businesses to grow.

In sport, you're trying to take out your competitor. You're not looking to bring other people in. It's your locker room versus the rest of the world. And it is the hardest worker in the room, the team with the greatest chemistry, and those that don't let up, whether they're winning or losing. In business, it's about compromise. If you enter a partnership where you're getting a leg up in the negotiation, assume that partnership is not going to renew. So I talk about competitive compromise as the third portion of my book evolves and the lessons then transmit into our careers, into our romantic lives, into our family and friends, into our community service. I think compromise becomes very underrated, is often misunderstood, and it's a key to success.

After hearing about our Secretary of State's visit to China today and reading the news, it seems to me like competitive compromise is something that might work well in that relationship. My last question Question for you is, you have achieved so much in sports, in the PLL, in all the businesses that you started. What new mountains are you looking to climb in the coming years?

Well, right now, in the spirit of our singular focus, to discussion is making lacrosse a top five sport in North America. And the vessel of which I'm working day to day on is through the Premier Lacrosse League. So how do we become a top five sports league in North America? But to become a bigger league, we need more participants at the grassroots level. We need more nations playing the game. We need accessibility to increase. So a lot of my time spent in this mountain that I'm climbing is around getting sticks in hands, goals on field, attention on the cross, educating people on the history of the game. It is an enormous mountain, but it's one that I'm uniquely positioned to climb, given that I've played for almost 30 years of my life, and it's game that I feel not only spiritually connected to, but really love as a former athlete.

Paul, it was such an honor to have you on Passion Struct today. Thank you so much for joining us, and congratulations not only on your book, but what you're doing with the PLL.

I appreciate you, John. Thanks for having me. It's a great conversation.

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When we look through the lens of what I want, this is about acquiring things. The The problem is that when that is your focus, those things become very important because that defines who you are, you believe. And it results in only a very shallow sense of happiness and one that's quite transitory. You have to keep feeding that machine versus utomonic happiness, which I believe most people want to aspire to. And that is having a sense of purpose and meaning in your life that drives your behavior. And that is a type of happiness. It's not as exhilarating necessarily as hedonic happiness, but it is very deep. And it is one that supports you in the sense that when you just think about who you are as a human being, what you have accomplished, what you've done to improve other people's lives, it gives this very warm, deep, calming feeling. And I think that's what everyone ultimately strives for.

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