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Sometimes a new gadget can help. Snoo, anyone? But for some One of the hardest questions in parenting, gadgets and products can't cut it. I'm talking about the things we really need help doing, like learning how to discipline a child who just hit her sibling, or deciding when or if to get our kids a smartphone. We've got questions like how to set up our boys for success in school and when to let your kid walk down the street by herself. For these questions, gadgets aren't going to do it. We need information information and data. We need to hear from experts who've thought carefully about these questions, and we need this information so we can separate hype from truth and make our own best decisions. Which is why we made this show. I'm Emily Oster, and from the Free Press, this is Raising Parents, a show that tackles parenting questions with data, not trends. Emily Oster, an economist by trade, has gathered the data, crunched the numbers, and is now debunking some of the most controversial myths about parenthood. I think what everyone is most interested in, pregnant women, they're like, Can I drink? You shouldn't have a lot.

Where is this data coming from? The fundamental answer is we get data on people by asking people about their behaviors and what they do and by collecting information on how their kids do. Oster doesn't shy away from other charged topics. People are using your database as an example as to why schools should reopen. What reaction did get to that? I imagine that was a little controversial. It was a little controversial, yes. You're an economist. You're not a doctor. What do you think people are going to take away from what you've written in this book? All that I'm trying to do here is really show women here is what the evidence is, and why don't you think about some of these decisions for yourself. I'm an economist and author of The Unexpected, Expecting Better, Cribsheet, and The Family Firm. Basically, a bunch of parenting books, not based on magic or feelings or trends, but based on data and evidence. And it turned out that's what parents want. They want to be treated like adults. And that's exactly what this show will give you. It is incontrovertibly true that we've built a schooling system that is more amenable to the way girls develop than the way boys develop.

There are parents that believe everything has to be talked out. I'm sorry, it's not a democracy. That's wrong. We've become a very drug-oriented society. Kids are being medicated for ADHD and depression and anxiety. Oh, God, at such early ages. You get this overprotective, concierge, paranoid parenting, and that's really bad for kids. I spent a lot of time asking all the hard and controversial questions. Is your impression that the kids would be happy or if they were getting more external restrictions on this? The answer is yes, but. Do you think that marriage is a moral obligation to children? I mean, that's a loaded one. This is perhaps going It may sound like a silly question, but why is this so bad? What's the problem with childhood obesity? What's at stake? What happens is that growing obesity rates among kids sets up kids for a lifetime of these health risks, really threats to their health and actually to their lives. Is it possible to set boundaries that have consequences? No, because I don't think you're really setting a boundary at all. What you're doing is you're turning yourself into a slave to the child so that you can have all the information you need.

Kids who are growing up with a single mom are five times more likely to live in poverty than kids growing up with married parents. Very few kids complain their parents don't have time for them. Instead, what kids complain is that their parents are too angry, tired, and stressed. All of the data we have suggests that young people growing up in a social media dominated social landscape, spending less time with friends in reality and more time with friends in the virtual are unhappier. And all of the valid perspectives, sometimes from the little people themselves. The boys are acting bad, then the teachers will get mad. But then when the girls act bad and do something, the teachers don't get as mad because... Yeah. My brother and I walked to our friend's house. It was the first time. We were in the third grade, and we told all our friends how we walked. It was fun for us because we got to see the shock on all of the friends' parents' faces. Like, oh, my gosh. By the time my friend started getting phones, I didn't want one because I had been noticing these gradual perceptible changes to me in my friend's behavior.

So that you can confidently raise good people in this strange new world. I think that parents today are contending with forces that are bigger than any one family, any one school, any one community. There's nothing wrong with your children. There's something wrong with the way we're living. We're so desperate. I mean, we really just want someone to tell us what to do or to tell us that we're doing okay. We really need to hear that. Raising Parents is coming to you September 18th. Find it wherever you get your podcasts.