I went through a then boyfriend's phone to check if he's been cheating because man wasn't sexing me enough that time. I checked chats with his long-term dude best friend, only to find chats of them two flurting and talking about the last time that they had had sex. That's fucking terrifying. Turns out they'd been having sex for a while and my ex was the bottom. I was flawed.

I'm a bomb and you're in front of me. I'll shake. Yeah, you can't even be the top. You're not even controlling this relationship, let alone that. She said you're not the man in your own fantasy. Jesus Christ. That's crazy. That's crazy. Wow.