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We got a great week lined up for you. We got some reality recap tomorrow. We got Jess from perfect match on Wednesday, a special episode of Going Deeper. Coming this Wednesday. It is going to be a cheek clenching, jaw dropping holy shit. I can't believe this happened. A la like raven from love is blind.

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What cheeks are we clenching?

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All the cheeks.

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All the cheeks. It's a very, let's just say sensitive situation going on with Jess and all things regarding Harry. But it's a wild, wild, wild, wild. I really feel for tough sitch, tough situation. Anyways, that is this week ongoing. That is this week on the bio files. Anyways, we have a writer enter.

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And this is maybe daddy. Maybe dad is like behind the wheel making these decisions. Who knows? But worth the question. All right, well, let's get to our callers. I know you guys want to dive into that, but before we do, don't forget to send in your questions@asknickhillfiles.com. for any of your questions. Whether it's an ask Nick or maybe a specific texting office hour or a mediation, we certainly love more of those relationship problems, wedding problems, family problems, whatever the problem is, give us a shot to help us help you solve it. Again, we got a great week lined up for you. So get ready for some drama, some fun, some laughs, some good times. Thanks for joining us. Whenever you join us, because you are a member of the household. All right, let's get to our callers. Let's ask Nick your sexy question.Is that a packers.Heck yeah, it.Is from New Orleans.1997 Super bowl.Yeah. Hell, yeah. I was literally talking about that today with Brian Baumgartner. Are you from Wisconsin?Yes, I am in La Crosse.Oh, you are? Nice.I'm actually originally from Wisconsin. Delft. Like, born and raised.Are you really? Oh, nice. Okay. Yeah, I've been to both places. How's it going?Good.How are you? Good. What's your name?My name is Jess and I'm 34.How can we help Jess?I think I'm moving too fast in my new relationship.Okay. What makes you think that you are?So we met in the middle of February, like, towards the end of February. And we went on a few dates, defined our relationship. The beginning of April. But we said the I love you, like, the end of March. And now we are talking about selling my house and mean moving in with him, like, the end of this year.Okay. Yeah. Wow, that is fast. Yeah. Why do you feel like it's moving fast? Because I asked that. Because obviously, by definition, by. And I guess most people's standards, that's moving very quickly. That being said, other people have moved very quickly and it's been fabulous. Other people, not so much. So the point is you feel like it's fast and that's what matters most.Yeah.And we need to figure out why that is and what do we do about it?I think the reason why I feel that I'm moving too fast is because, I mean, I've not necessarily made fun of other girls that have moved to fast or other relationships that have moved too fast, but I've questioned their, you know, intentions and why they're doing it. So now I'm like, I need to question myself.Okay, so you're. And so Got it. Noted.Okay. All right, good luck. Have some fun with this love.Okay, I will.Thanks. Take care. Bye bye. This show is sponsored by better help. Comparison is a thief of joy, and it's easy to envy other people's lives. Online, it might look like other people have it all together, like they figured it all out, but in reality, their problems haven't. And that's where therapy can come in. Well, it doesn't matter if you're comparing yourself to others. Maybe you're having money problems. Maybe it's relationship problems. Maybe you're just like, have general anxiety. It doesn't matter the reason. Therapy can be a help to us all, and we all understand the challenges of what it's like to maybe get into therapy a. It can be intimidating. You don't know how to find a good therapist. Maybe you don't know how to ask. Maybe you don't want to, like, go to your friends. Even though we have normalized therapy, it can still be something that's a little nerve wracking to, like, talk to your friends about. That's where betterhelp comes in. It makes it super easy to get into therapy because they are working with thousands of new therapists every day to help ensure that they can find a therapist that you feel comfortable with.You could be talking to a therapist in less than, like, 48 hours. You just go to betterhelp.com. you answer a couple quick questions about what you're looking for in terms of therapy, and Betterhelp will assign a therapist to you. If you don't love them or feel comfortable with them, no problem. They will get you a new therapist. Until you fall in love with that therapist and feel like you are seen and heard by that person, because that's such an important aspect of therapy. You can do it voice to voice. You can do it from the comfort of anywhere, really. As long as you have a tablet or computer or your phone, betterhelp meets all your needs. Get it off your chest with betterhelp. Visit betterhelp.com v I a l l today to get 10% off your first month. That's betterhelp help.com vial ladies, like I've always said on this show, you know your man could always up his grooming game. And that's where Cremo's men's body wash can help. Nothing pairs with a shower better than Cremo's body wash. Cremo combines a rich lathering and hydrating formula with meticulously balanced, multi layered fragrances for a superior shower experience.Cremo's men's body wash makes a regular shower feel like a scent sensation. Their bourbon vanilla body wash invigorates the senses with bold distiller spices, perfectly balanced with notes of rich madagascar vanilla and aged oak. To create a shower experience that meets even the highest of standards.Crimo works with master perfumers to make sure that every Cremo body wash scent is meticulously blended and refined. And their hard work definitely shows after every wash. Get your man smelling like a high end cologne. They also have amazing grooming products for women, including shave cream, razors, and hydration mist, all in a variety of unforgettable, dreamy fragrances.You can find Cremo's men's body wash in its new, distinctive bourbon vanilla scent at Walmart or walmart.com dot. Once again, that's at walmart or walmart.com dot. How's it going?I am Daphne. I'm 28, and my mother thinks I tried to kill her and now wants to reconnect.Okay. Why does your mom think you tried to kill her?She's had, like, some sort of mental break. So basically it started when she had some sort of mental break right after she divorced my dad. And then it got slowly and progressively worse where she somehow thought, like, the government was after her and, like, all the cops were spies and, like, all this crazy stuff. And one time she thought people were following her everywhere and her behind neighbors had just moved in our complex, and I got a phone call from someone she worked with while she was, like, in this crazy psychotic break. And he said that she had thought that the people behind her were spies from the government, and she had a gun and she was going to do something about it.Well, that sounds very scary. Is your mom being diagnosed with any type of mental health condition?No. So basically what happened was, like, when she did that, I called the cops for a welfare check, and she thought the cops were spies, and she ended up fleeing the country, which was really crazy. But she hasn't been diagnosed with anything because now she lives off the grid. And I tried to go to Colorado, because they have a law where only a family member can petition to take your weapons away and get you as hot, and you're sweating a lot more. I know I am. And you all know I have, like. Like something's wrong with me, you know what I'm saying? But since I've been using Lumi deodorant, it has been an absolute game changer. I feel like my body odor is minimal.Stunning.It's stunning. I smell delicious.Thanks to Lumi.Thanks to Lumi.Thanks, Lumi.Their ph optimized formula is clinically proven to block odor all day. And it's not just for the underarms. It's for everywhere we get odor pits, privates, feet under, boobs, you name it. Lumi was created by an ob gyn who saw firsthand how normal Bo was misdiagnosed and mistreated. It's clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours.Unlike certain traditional deodorants that try to mask odor with a fragrance, Lumi is formulated and powered by mandelic acid to stop odorous before it starts. More like a pre deodorant. Plus, now they have sweat control, the same outrageously effective whole body deodorant that you love with a bonus of sweat control. Now available in the cream tube with 72 hours odor and sweat control, it's baking soda free and paraben free and ph balanced. For safe use below the belt, you can choose from a variety of fresh, bright scents, like clean tangerine, lavender, sage, and toasted coconut.Lumis starter pack is perfect for new customers. It comes with a solid stick deodorant, cream tube deodorant, two free products of your choice, like mini body wash and deodorant wipes, and free shipping.As a special offer for our listeners, new customers get 15% off all Lumi products with our exclusive code. And if you combine the 15% off with the already discounted starter pack, that equals 40% off their starter pack. Use code v I a l l for 15% off your first purchase@lumiedodorant.com. that's l u m e d e o dash. Orant.com. lumideodorant.com. How's it going?Good, Nick. How are you?Good. What's your name?My name is Jojo. I am 26.How can I help, Jojo?My wedding aficion. No?Okay. All right, well, how did that happen?A little bit of backstory. So my wedding officiant is actually my cousin. I think a lot of people would describe her as more than a cousin. We're very sister like. We're the same age. We grew up together. We lived together. At one point, just understood.Very close cousin. Yeah.Yes. And so we both just recently got engaged. So we're in the process of planning our weddings. Me and my partner knew that we wanted to do a destination wedding, and it's something we've been talking about for a really long time. And so when I was looking at my bridal party options, I was kind of evaluating everybody that I wanted to be in my party. And since we're doing a destination wedding, I wanted whoever was officiating the wedding to be someone who was really important to us. And I felt like she. I'll call her Hailey. I felt like Hailey really knew our relationship better than anybody else. And so we asked her to officiate our wedding. I gave her a kind of like a bridal or a bachelorette gift, like I gave everybody else in my wedding party. She said yes. And then a few days later, after I gave her the gift and she said yes, she reached out to me and was like, so I only budgeted x amount to travel for your wedding. If you would like me to go, you need to pay the remainder. Otherwise, I'm not going to.Okay.So, yeah.And I'm assuming you said, I don't have the money for that.Yeah. So what I guess where I'm confused and a little frustrated is we had previously had conversations about the budget and her affording the wedding. She had kind of mentioned it before, before she said yes. And I had very clearly explained to her, like, you know, we were not planning to pay for everybody in the bridal party or our guests to go, but I was willing to, like, work things when booking the trip. And so I was like, well, maybe we can get you someone to room with you, like, down there where we're staying. We can see if we can get you, like, maybe not a direct flight to try to offset some of the costs.Okay, that's not gonna help all that network in Dublin, our emergency department is open Monday to Saturday, 08:00 a.m. to 07:00 p.m. you can quickly access expert medical care from our consultant led team, and no appointment is necessary. See matterprivate, ie for details on getting the emergency care you need as soon as possible. Matter private network emergency department, Dublin over 16s only.

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maybe daddy. Maybe dad is like behind the wheel making these decisions. Who knows? But worth the question. All right, well, let's get to our callers. I know you guys want to dive into that, but before we do, don't forget to send in your questions@asknickhillfiles.com. for any of your questions. Whether it's an ask Nick or maybe a specific texting office hour or a mediation, we certainly love more of those relationship problems, wedding problems, family problems, whatever the problem is, give us a shot to help us help you solve it. Again, we got a great week lined up for you. So get ready for some drama, some fun, some laughs, some good times. Thanks for joining us. Whenever you join us, because you are a member of the household. All right, let's get to our callers. Let's ask Nick your sexy question.

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Is that a packers.

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Heck yeah, it.

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Is from New Orleans.

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1997 Super bowl.

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Yeah. Hell, yeah. I was literally talking about that today with Brian Baumgartner. Are you from Wisconsin?

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Yes, I am in La Crosse.

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Oh, you are? Nice.

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I'm actually originally from Wisconsin. Delft. Like, born and raised.

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Are you really? Oh, nice. Okay. Yeah, I've been to both places. How's it going?

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Good.

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How are you? Good. What's your name?

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My name is Jess and I'm 34.

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How can we help Jess?

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I think I'm moving too fast in my new relationship.

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Okay. What makes you think that you are?

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So we met in the middle of February, like, towards the end of February. And we went on a few dates, defined our relationship. The beginning of April. But we said the I love you, like, the end of March. And now we are talking about selling my house and mean moving in with him, like, the end of this year.

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Okay. Yeah. Wow, that is fast. Yeah. Why do you feel like it's moving fast? Because I asked that. Because obviously, by definition, by. And I guess most people's standards, that's moving very quickly. That being said, other people have moved very quickly and it's been fabulous. Other people, not so much. So the point is you feel like it's fast and that's what matters most.

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Yeah.

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And we need to figure out why that is and what do we do about it?

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I think the reason why I feel that I'm moving too fast is because, I mean, I've not necessarily made fun of other girls that have moved to fast or other relationships that have moved too fast, but I've questioned their, you know, intentions and why they're doing it. So now I'm like, I need to question myself.

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Okay, so you're. And so Got it. Noted.Okay. All right, good luck. Have some fun with this love.Okay, I will.Thanks. Take care. Bye bye. This show is sponsored by better help. Comparison is a thief of joy, and it's easy to envy other people's lives. Online, it might look like other people have it all together, like they figured it all out, but in reality, their problems haven't. And that's where therapy can come in. Well, it doesn't matter if you're comparing yourself to others. Maybe you're having money problems. Maybe it's relationship problems. Maybe you're just like, have general anxiety. It doesn't matter the reason. Therapy can be a help to us all, and we all understand the challenges of what it's like to maybe get into therapy a. It can be intimidating. You don't know how to find a good therapist. Maybe you don't know how to ask. Maybe you don't want to, like, go to your friends. Even though we have normalized therapy, it can still be something that's a little nerve wracking to, like, talk to your friends about. That's where betterhelp comes in. It makes it super easy to get into therapy because they are working with thousands of new therapists every day to help ensure that they can find a therapist that you feel comfortable with.You could be talking to a therapist in less than, like, 48 hours. You just go to betterhelp.com. you answer a couple quick questions about what you're looking for in terms of therapy, and Betterhelp will assign a therapist to you. If you don't love them or feel comfortable with them, no problem. They will get you a new therapist. Until you fall in love with that therapist and feel like you are seen and heard by that person, because that's such an important aspect of therapy. You can do it voice to voice. You can do it from the comfort of anywhere, really. As long as you have a tablet or computer or your phone, betterhelp meets all your needs. Get it off your chest with betterhelp. Visit betterhelp.com v I a l l today to get 10% off your first month. That's betterhelp help.com vial ladies, like I've always said on this show, you know your man could always up his grooming game. And that's where Cremo's men's body wash can help. Nothing pairs with a shower better than Cremo's body wash. Cremo combines a rich lathering and hydrating formula with meticulously balanced, multi layered fragrances for a superior shower experience.Cremo's men's body wash makes a regular shower feel like a scent sensation. Their bourbon vanilla body wash invigorates the senses with bold distiller spices, perfectly balanced with notes of rich madagascar vanilla and aged oak. To create a shower experience that meets even the highest of standards.Crimo works with master perfumers to make sure that every Cremo body wash scent is meticulously blended and refined. And their hard work definitely shows after every wash. Get your man smelling like a high end cologne. They also have amazing grooming products for women, including shave cream, razors, and hydration mist, all in a variety of unforgettable, dreamy fragrances.You can find Cremo's men's body wash in its new, distinctive bourbon vanilla scent at Walmart or walmart.com dot. Once again, that's at walmart or walmart.com dot. How's it going?I am Daphne. I'm 28, and my mother thinks I tried to kill her and now wants to reconnect.Okay. Why does your mom think you tried to kill her?She's had, like, some sort of mental break. So basically it started when she had some sort of mental break right after she divorced my dad. And then it got slowly and progressively worse where she somehow thought, like, the government was after her and, like, all the cops were spies and, like, all this crazy stuff. And one time she thought people were following her everywhere and her behind neighbors had just moved in our complex, and I got a phone call from someone she worked with while she was, like, in this crazy psychotic break. And he said that she had thought that the people behind her were spies from the government, and she had a gun and she was going to do something about it.Well, that sounds very scary. Is your mom being diagnosed with any type of mental health condition?No. So basically what happened was, like, when she did that, I called the cops for a welfare check, and she thought the cops were spies, and she ended up fleeing the country, which was really crazy. But she hasn't been diagnosed with anything because now she lives off the grid. And I tried to go to Colorado, because they have a law where only a family member can petition to take your weapons away and get you as hot, and you're sweating a lot more. I know I am. And you all know I have, like. Like something's wrong with me, you know what I'm saying? But since I've been using Lumi deodorant, it has been an absolute game changer. I feel like my body odor is minimal.Stunning.It's stunning. I smell delicious.Thanks to Lumi.Thanks to Lumi.Thanks, Lumi.Their ph optimized formula is clinically proven to block odor all day. And it's not just for the underarms. It's for everywhere we get odor pits, privates, feet under, boobs, you name it. Lumi was created by an ob gyn who saw firsthand how normal Bo was misdiagnosed and mistreated. It's clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours.Unlike certain traditional deodorants that try to mask odor with a fragrance, Lumi is formulated and powered by mandelic acid to stop odorous before it starts. More like a pre deodorant. Plus, now they have sweat control, the same outrageously effective whole body deodorant that you love with a bonus of sweat control. Now available in the cream tube with 72 hours odor and sweat control, it's baking soda free and paraben free and ph balanced. For safe use below the belt, you can choose from a variety of fresh, bright scents, like clean tangerine, lavender, sage, and toasted coconut.Lumis starter pack is perfect for new customers. It comes with a solid stick deodorant, cream tube deodorant, two free products of your choice, like mini body wash and deodorant wipes, and free shipping.As a special offer for our listeners, new customers get 15% off all Lumi products with our exclusive code. And if you combine the 15% off with the already discounted starter pack, that equals 40% off their starter pack. Use code v I a l l for 15% off your first purchase@lumiedodorant.com. that's l u m e d e o dash. Orant.com. lumideodorant.com. How's it going?Good, Nick. How are you?Good. What's your name?My name is Jojo. I am 26.How can I help, Jojo?My wedding aficion. No?Okay. All right, well, how did that happen?A little bit of backstory. So my wedding officiant is actually my cousin. I think a lot of people would describe her as more than a cousin. We're very sister like. We're the same age. We grew up together. We lived together. At one point, just understood.Very close cousin. Yeah.Yes. And so we both just recently got engaged. So we're in the process of planning our weddings. Me and my partner knew that we wanted to do a destination wedding, and it's something we've been talking about for a really long time. And so when I was looking at my bridal party options, I was kind of evaluating everybody that I wanted to be in my party. And since we're doing a destination wedding, I wanted whoever was officiating the wedding to be someone who was really important to us. And I felt like she. I'll call her Hailey. I felt like Hailey really knew our relationship better than anybody else. And so we asked her to officiate our wedding. I gave her a kind of like a bridal or a bachelorette gift, like I gave everybody else in my wedding party. She said yes. And then a few days later, after I gave her the gift and she said yes, she reached out to me and was like, so I only budgeted x amount to travel for your wedding. If you would like me to go, you need to pay the remainder. Otherwise, I'm not going to.Okay.So, yeah.And I'm assuming you said, I don't have the money for that.Yeah. So what I guess where I'm confused and a little frustrated is we had previously had conversations about the budget and her affording the wedding. She had kind of mentioned it before, before she said yes. And I had very clearly explained to her, like, you know, we were not planning to pay for everybody in the bridal party or our guests to go, but I was willing to, like, work things when booking the trip. And so I was like, well, maybe we can get you someone to room with you, like, down there where we're staying. We can see if we can get you, like, maybe not a direct flight to try to offset some of the costs.Okay, that's not gonna help all that network in Dublin, our emergency department is open Monday to Saturday, 08:00 a.m. to 07:00 p.m. you can quickly access expert medical care from our consultant led team, and no appointment is necessary. See matterprivate, ie for details on getting the emergency care you need as soon as possible. Matter private network emergency department, Dublin over 16s only.

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Got it. Noted.

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Okay. All right, good luck. Have some fun with this love.

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Okay, I will.

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Thanks. Take care. Bye bye. This show is sponsored by better help. Comparison is a thief of joy, and it's easy to envy other people's lives. Online, it might look like other people have it all together, like they figured it all out, but in reality, their problems haven't. And that's where therapy can come in. Well, it doesn't matter if you're comparing yourself to others. Maybe you're having money problems. Maybe it's relationship problems. Maybe you're just like, have general anxiety. It doesn't matter the reason. Therapy can be a help to us all, and we all understand the challenges of what it's like to maybe get into therapy a. It can be intimidating. You don't know how to find a good therapist. Maybe you don't know how to ask. Maybe you don't want to, like, go to your friends. Even though we have normalized therapy, it can still be something that's a little nerve wracking to, like, talk to your friends about. That's where betterhelp comes in. It makes it super easy to get into therapy because they are working with thousands of new therapists every day to help ensure that they can find a therapist that you feel comfortable with.

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You could be talking to a therapist in less than, like, 48 hours. You just go to betterhelp.com. you answer a couple quick questions about what you're looking for in terms of therapy, and Betterhelp will assign a therapist to you. If you don't love them or feel comfortable with them, no problem. They will get you a new therapist. Until you fall in love with that therapist and feel like you are seen and heard by that person, because that's such an important aspect of therapy. You can do it voice to voice. You can do it from the comfort of anywhere, really. As long as you have a tablet or computer or your phone, betterhelp meets all your needs. Get it off your chest with betterhelp. Visit betterhelp.com v I a l l today to get 10% off your first month. That's betterhelp help.com vial ladies, like I've always said on this show, you know your man could always up his grooming game. And that's where Cremo's men's body wash can help. Nothing pairs with a shower better than Cremo's body wash. Cremo combines a rich lathering and hydrating formula with meticulously balanced, multi layered fragrances for a superior shower experience.

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Cremo's men's body wash makes a regular shower feel like a scent sensation. Their bourbon vanilla body wash invigorates the senses with bold distiller spices, perfectly balanced with notes of rich madagascar vanilla and aged oak. To create a shower experience that meets even the highest of standards.

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Crimo works with master perfumers to make sure that every Cremo body wash scent is meticulously blended and refined. And their hard work definitely shows after every wash. Get your man smelling like a high end cologne. They also have amazing grooming products for women, including shave cream, razors, and hydration mist, all in a variety of unforgettable, dreamy fragrances.

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You can find Cremo's men's body wash in its new, distinctive bourbon vanilla scent at Walmart or walmart.com dot. Once again, that's at walmart or walmart.com dot. How's it going?

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I am Daphne. I'm 28, and my mother thinks I tried to kill her and now wants to reconnect.

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Okay. Why does your mom think you tried to kill her?

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She's had, like, some sort of mental break. So basically it started when she had some sort of mental break right after she divorced my dad. And then it got slowly and progressively worse where she somehow thought, like, the government was after her and, like, all the cops were spies and, like, all this crazy stuff. And one time she thought people were following her everywhere and her behind neighbors had just moved in our complex, and I got a phone call from someone she worked with while she was, like, in this crazy psychotic break. And he said that she had thought that the people behind her were spies from the government, and she had a gun and she was going to do something about it.

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Well, that sounds very scary. Is your mom being diagnosed with any type of mental health condition?

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No. So basically what happened was, like, when she did that, I called the cops for a welfare check, and she thought the cops were spies, and she ended up fleeing the country, which was really crazy. But she hasn't been diagnosed with anything because now she lives off the grid. And I tried to go to Colorado, because they have a law where only a family member can petition to take your weapons away and get you as hot, and you're sweating a lot more. I know I am. And you all know I have, like. Like something's wrong with me, you know what I'm saying? But since I've been using Lumi deodorant, it has been an absolute game changer. I feel like my body odor is minimal.Stunning.It's stunning. I smell delicious.Thanks to Lumi.Thanks to Lumi.Thanks, Lumi.Their ph optimized formula is clinically proven to block odor all day. And it's not just for the underarms. It's for everywhere we get odor pits, privates, feet under, boobs, you name it. Lumi was created by an ob gyn who saw firsthand how normal Bo was misdiagnosed and mistreated. It's clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours.Unlike certain traditional deodorants that try to mask odor with a fragrance, Lumi is formulated and powered by mandelic acid to stop odorous before it starts. More like a pre deodorant. Plus, now they have sweat control, the same outrageously effective whole body deodorant that you love with a bonus of sweat control. Now available in the cream tube with 72 hours odor and sweat control, it's baking soda free and paraben free and ph balanced. For safe use below the belt, you can choose from a variety of fresh, bright scents, like clean tangerine, lavender, sage, and toasted coconut.Lumis starter pack is perfect for new customers. It comes with a solid stick deodorant, cream tube deodorant, two free products of your choice, like mini body wash and deodorant wipes, and free shipping.As a special offer for our listeners, new customers get 15% off all Lumi products with our exclusive code. And if you combine the 15% off with the already discounted starter pack, that equals 40% off their starter pack. Use code v I a l l for 15% off your first purchase@lumiedodorant.com. that's l u m e d e o dash. Orant.com. lumideodorant.com. How's it going?Good, Nick. How are you?Good. What's your name?My name is Jojo. I am 26.How can I help, Jojo?My wedding aficion. No?Okay. All right, well, how did that happen?A little bit of backstory. So my wedding officiant is actually my cousin. I think a lot of people would describe her as more than a cousin. We're very sister like. We're the same age. We grew up together. We lived together. At one point, just understood.Very close cousin. Yeah.Yes. And so we both just recently got engaged. So we're in the process of planning our weddings. Me and my partner knew that we wanted to do a destination wedding, and it's something we've been talking about for a really long time. And so when I was looking at my bridal party options, I was kind of evaluating everybody that I wanted to be in my party. And since we're doing a destination wedding, I wanted whoever was officiating the wedding to be someone who was really important to us. And I felt like she. I'll call her Hailey. I felt like Hailey really knew our relationship better than anybody else. And so we asked her to officiate our wedding. I gave her a kind of like a bridal or a bachelorette gift, like I gave everybody else in my wedding party. She said yes. And then a few days later, after I gave her the gift and she said yes, she reached out to me and was like, so I only budgeted x amount to travel for your wedding. If you would like me to go, you need to pay the remainder. Otherwise, I'm not going to.Okay.So, yeah.And I'm assuming you said, I don't have the money for that.Yeah. So what I guess where I'm confused and a little frustrated is we had previously had conversations about the budget and her affording the wedding. She had kind of mentioned it before, before she said yes. And I had very clearly explained to her, like, you know, we were not planning to pay for everybody in the bridal party or our guests to go, but I was willing to, like, work things when booking the trip. And so I was like, well, maybe we can get you someone to room with you, like, down there where we're staying. We can see if we can get you, like, maybe not a direct flight to try to offset some of the costs.Okay, that's not gonna help all that network in Dublin, our emergency department is open Monday to Saturday, 08:00 a.m. to 07:00 p.m. you can quickly access expert medical care from our consultant led team, and no appointment is necessary. See matterprivate, ie for details on getting the emergency care you need as soon as possible. Matter private network emergency department, Dublin over 16s only.

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s hot, and you're sweating a lot more. I know I am. And you all know I have, like. Like something's wrong with me, you know what I'm saying? But since I've been using Lumi deodorant, it has been an absolute game changer. I feel like my body odor is minimal.

[01:07:47]

Stunning.

[01:07:48]

It's stunning. I smell delicious.

[01:07:49]

Thanks to Lumi.

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Thanks to Lumi.

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Thanks, Lumi.

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Their ph optimized formula is clinically proven to block odor all day. And it's not just for the underarms. It's for everywhere we get odor pits, privates, feet under, boobs, you name it. Lumi was created by an ob gyn who saw firsthand how normal Bo was misdiagnosed and mistreated. It's clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours.

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Unlike certain traditional deodorants that try to mask odor with a fragrance, Lumi is formulated and powered by mandelic acid to stop odorous before it starts. More like a pre deodorant. Plus, now they have sweat control, the same outrageously effective whole body deodorant that you love with a bonus of sweat control. Now available in the cream tube with 72 hours odor and sweat control, it's baking soda free and paraben free and ph balanced. For safe use below the belt, you can choose from a variety of fresh, bright scents, like clean tangerine, lavender, sage, and toasted coconut.

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Lumis starter pack is perfect for new customers. It comes with a solid stick deodorant, cream tube deodorant, two free products of your choice, like mini body wash and deodorant wipes, and free shipping.

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As a special offer for our listeners, new customers get 15% off all Lumi products with our exclusive code. And if you combine the 15% off with the already discounted starter pack, that equals 40% off their starter pack. Use code v I a l l for 15% off your first purchase@lumiedodorant.com. that's l u m e d e o dash. Orant.com. lumideodorant.com. How's it going?

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Good, Nick. How are you?

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Good. What's your name?

[01:09:20]

My name is Jojo. I am 26.

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How can I help, Jojo?

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My wedding aficion. No?

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Okay. All right, well, how did that happen?

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A little bit of backstory. So my wedding officiant is actually my cousin. I think a lot of people would describe her as more than a cousin. We're very sister like. We're the same age. We grew up together. We lived together. At one point, just understood.

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Very close cousin. Yeah.

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Yes. And so we both just recently got engaged. So we're in the process of planning our weddings. Me and my partner knew that we wanted to do a destination wedding, and it's something we've been talking about for a really long time. And so when I was looking at my bridal party options, I was kind of evaluating everybody that I wanted to be in my party. And since we're doing a destination wedding, I wanted whoever was officiating the wedding to be someone who was really important to us. And I felt like she. I'll call her Hailey. I felt like Hailey really knew our relationship better than anybody else. And so we asked her to officiate our wedding. I gave her a kind of like a bridal or a bachelorette gift, like I gave everybody else in my wedding party. She said yes. And then a few days later, after I gave her the gift and she said yes, she reached out to me and was like, so I only budgeted x amount to travel for your wedding. If you would like me to go, you need to pay the remainder. Otherwise, I'm not going to.

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Okay.

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So, yeah.

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And I'm assuming you said, I don't have the money for that.

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Yeah. So what I guess where I'm confused and a little frustrated is we had previously had conversations about the budget and her affording the wedding. She had kind of mentioned it before, before she said yes. And I had very clearly explained to her, like, you know, we were not planning to pay for everybody in the bridal party or our guests to go, but I was willing to, like, work things when booking the trip. And so I was like, well, maybe we can get you someone to room with you, like, down there where we're staying. We can see if we can get you, like, maybe not a direct flight to try to offset some of the costs.Okay, that's not gonna help all that network in Dublin, our emergency department is open Monday to Saturday, 08:00 a.m. to 07:00 p.m. you can quickly access expert medical care from our consultant led team, and no appointment is necessary. See matterprivate, ie for details on getting the emergency care you need as soon as possible. Matter private network emergency department, Dublin over 16s only.

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things when booking the trip. And so I was like, well, maybe we can get you someone to room with you, like, down there where we're staying. We can see if we can get you, like, maybe not a direct flight to try to offset some of the costs.

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Okay, that's not gonna help all that network in Dublin, our emergency department is open Monday to Saturday, 08:00 a.m. to 07:00 p.m. you can quickly access expert medical care from our consultant led team, and no appointment is necessary. See matterprivate, ie for details on getting the emergency care you need as soon as possible. Matter private network emergency department, Dublin over 16s only.

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network in Dublin, our emergency department is open Monday to Saturday, 08:00 a.m. to 07:00 p.m. you can quickly access expert medical care from our consultant led team, and no appointment is necessary. See matterprivate, ie for details on getting the emergency care you need as soon as possible. Matter private network emergency department, Dublin over 16s only.